Fellas, why haven't y'all learned this lesson?
Don't tell me you care about me then break dates.
Don't tell me you respect me then keep pushing when I've said "No."
Don't tell me you love me then won't make time for me.
Don't tell me you're into me when I'm not a priority in your life.
Don't tell me, "I'm trying," when you haven't included me as part of the process.
Don't call, text or email to keep in touch, check in or to say, "Hi," then don't ask me out.
This is what a real man DOES when he is into me:
He calls a lot.
He spends time with me, vertically and horizontally.
He makes me a priority on his schedule.
He rearranges other appointments to see me.
He says, "No," to family and friends to be with me.
He goes to events he doesn't want to go to because I want to go.
And I do all of this for him as well.
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Sunday, March 6, 2011
Monday, December 21, 2009
he ADORES me...so he says
He told me, "I adore you."
Really?
According to dictionary.com, to adore means "to regard with the utmost esteem, love, and respect; honor; to like or admire very much."
This is wonderful. To have someone feel this way about me is amazing and to have someone actually say the words to me is humbling...if only I believed him.*
He says he adores me, but only calls about once a week.
He says he adores me, but hasn't taken me out since my birthday in November.
He says he adores me, but hasn't spent any time with me in over 6 weeks.
He says he adores me, but rarely accepts invitations to do things with me.
He says he adores me, but has canceled dates at the last minute or stood me up altogether.
He says one thing, but does other things that are completely contradictory. If this is how he adores me, I liked it better when he only kinda liked me.
You don't have to pee on my head and tell me its raining. I get the message loud and clear; he's just not that into me.
*Cleaning house for 2010.
Really?
According to dictionary.com, to adore means "to regard with the utmost esteem, love, and respect; honor; to like or admire very much."
This is wonderful. To have someone feel this way about me is amazing and to have someone actually say the words to me is humbling...if only I believed him.*
He says he adores me, but only calls about once a week.
He says he adores me, but hasn't taken me out since my birthday in November.
He says he adores me, but hasn't spent any time with me in over 6 weeks.
He says he adores me, but rarely accepts invitations to do things with me.
He says he adores me, but has canceled dates at the last minute or stood me up altogether.
He says one thing, but does other things that are completely contradictory. If this is how he adores me, I liked it better when he only kinda liked me.
You don't have to pee on my head and tell me its raining. I get the message loud and clear; he's just not that into me.
*Cleaning house for 2010.
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Text for Sex
I've seen the future, it is now and I don't like it: an ex sent me a text message for sex.
What happened to the booty call? I miss the 2am wake up call, the witty banter and the negotiations.
Now its a text message, which I usually miss because I keep my mobile in my purse when I'm home. I don't wanna type, have pithy repartee or negotiate at 2am in the frickin' middle of the night.
Damn, guys...call a sista!
I promise you'll get better results.
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